October 31, 2023

EP. 229 — Nicole Doesn’t Want Stinky Cheese Dick with Alesha Reneé & Serita Wesley

Hi Friends. You know what time it is! It’s time for Besting Each Other with Alesha Reneé and Serita Wesley. Serita met Alesha through a friend and a plethora of people at BET. Alesha’s favorite memory of traveling is when Serita came out to Los Angeles to just hang out while Alesha went to auditions. Serita’s favorite thing about Alesha is her southern charm. Alesha loves that Serita never gives up on love and knows that “real” always seems to find her. Serita thinks Alesha talks too much while Alesha thinks Serita can be a “Debbie Downer.”  They both think they would be better at Survivor than the other but they also agree that Alesha is more outdoorsy. 20 years from now, Alesha wants them to be loved, healthier and whole like we’ve never seen. Meanwhile, Serita hopes they are rich, content, comfortable and have great butts!  Together they created the Audible podcast series, Unleash for Love.


This was recorded October 24th, 2023.



Check out “Unleash For Love” on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/Unleash-for-Love-Audiobook/B0CB9FYCV3?qid=1689358839&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=83218cca-c308-412f-bfcf-90198b687a2f&pf_rd_r=2KW0AGES9C467X5989WV&pageLoadId=Bp8khEy2uajOMeuU&creativeId=0d6f6720-f41c-457e-a42b-8c8dceb62f2c


No BuzzFeed quiz this week.


Email or call Nicole & Sasheer with your friendship questions and  “Is this weird” suggestion at:




Nicole: How are you today?   Sasheer: Oh, I am good today. How are you?   Nicole: You know, I’m good. There’s breath in my body and there’s a joy in my bones.   Sasheer: Joyful bones? Yes.   Nicole: Joyful bones. Oh, we just passed spooky season. But my bones still feel joy and spookiness. What are you doing? Tell me about it.   Sasheer: What am I doing? I’m gonna see you soon.   Nicole: Yes, baby. Yes.   Sasheer: Finally got to come to a show that you invited me to.   Nicole: Yes. Well, this will have happened in the past.   Sasheer: That’s true. And it was good. We had such a good time.   Nicole: Boy, oh, boy, we had a blast. We did several things that I cannot tell you about.   Sasheer: But we can still talk about it as if it’s happening because… I don’t know. You’ll probably still be doing shows by the time this comes out. So, like, whatever.   Nicole: Nope. This is com

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